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How to Develop Character

Character is often defined as the combination of qualities or traits that make up a person’s individuality. Developing strong character can be essential to achieving personal growth and success, as it can help you stay true to your values, make better decisions, and build stronger relationships with others. In this post, we’ll explore some effective ways to develop your character.

Define Your Values

Your values are the beliefs and principles that guide your behavior and decision-making. Defining your values is an essential first step to developing strong character because it provides a clear framework for how you want to live your life. Take some time to reflect on what’s important to you and what you stand for. Make a list of your top values and keep them in mind as you go about your day.

Practice Self-Awareness

Self-awareness is the ability to recognize your own thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It’s a crucial element of character development because it helps you understand why you do what you do and how you can improve. Pay attention to your thoughts and emotions, and try to identify any patterns or triggers that lead to negative behavior. Once you’re aware of these patterns, you can take steps to change them.

Cultivate Resilience

Resilience is the ability to bounce back from setbacks and adversity. It’s an essential quality for character development because it helps you stay strong and focused in the face of challenges. To cultivate resilience, practice self-care, surround yourself with supportive people, and seek out opportunities to learn and grow.

Build Positive Habits

Your habits are the small actions you take every day that add up to make a big difference in your life. Building positive habits can help you develop strong character by reinforcing your values and goals. Choose one habit you’d like to cultivate and focus on it for a month. Whether it’s exercising every day or practicing gratitude, stick with it until it becomes a part of your routine.

Practice Empathy

Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of others. It’s an essential quality for character development because it helps you build stronger relationships and communicate more effectively. Practice empathy by actively listening to others, putting yourself in their shoes, and responding with kindness and understanding.

Set Goals

Setting goals is an effective way to develop character because it gives you a sense of purpose and direction. Choose a goal that aligns with your values and work toward it consistently. Whether it’s starting a new business or improving your health, make a plan and take action every day to make progress.

Developing character is an ongoing process that requires self-reflection, dedication, and hard work. By defining your values, practicing self-awareness, cultivating resilience, building positive habits, practicing empathy, and setting goals, you can develop the strong character you need to achieve personal growth and success.

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John holds four degrees (law, hotel management, literature & computer science, and theater), two decades of technical education, and has 30 years of extensive work experience in the fields of real estate property valuation, mortgage finance, home sales, teaching, and military service. John is the founder and Broker-Owner of Coleman Tanner Realty 🏡 in Florida. As a writer, John has been self-publishing books since 2012. His latest nonfiction book, The Entrefluential Broker, is a DIY guide to launching your own real estate brokerage business. John’s forthcoming book, STR Conversions, will inform real estate investors of how to quadruple their rental income via his new “hotel hacking” strategy. He plans on taking his lessons to online and offline speaking stages to share his tactics with investors in the second half of 2022. To discuss speaking engagements and workshops, interested parties can send inquiries to In addition to writing, John has a love for filmmaking that began while studying theater at Miami-Dade College in 1994. John plans on overseeing the shooting of an in-house “reality tv” show for his real estate practice, Coleman Tanner Realty. 🎬 John also aspires to executive produce independent films that will be a hybrid of the film noir + murder mystery genre and something new, futuristic, and aesthetically appealing to modern day film enthusiasts (think, anime in real life meets Sherlock Holmes). He also enjoys romantic comedies and Hallmark dramas; he wrote a romantic novella, Faithfully, available on Amazon (under the pen name of Jack Morgan) - so stay tuned for romance films as well. When he’s not 🖥 online studying film production, AirBnB, real estate, online marketing, or watching movies and his favorite TV shows on Netflix or the tube 📺 for inspiration. 🎼 John also enjoys playing the guitar 🎸 and piano 🎹 in his free time.